I wonder if all homeschool moms go through the same sort of progression I'm going through. I really don't know what I'm doing. There. I said it.
I'm glad that's over. Moving on...
If you scroll down and read about our typical day of homeschooling, you won't find anything negative. That was pretty silly of me. I hope it doesn't give the wrong impression. I didn't mean for it to look so rosy. Homeschooling is hard. It's busy. When I'm at home with the kids all day, dishes and laundry pile up, diapers need to be changed, tummies get hungry, kids get hurt and require medical intervention, and there are errands to run.
Even if those things didn't need to be done, there's the fact that my kids are 4 years, 2 years, and 7 weeks old. It's crazy around here! As I mentioned in another post, at times, I'm
literally dividing my attention between three people in order to get through lessons (and still my kids are brilliant--mommy pride speaking). What I'm saying is that it's okay!! It's hard, but it works.
I'm saying this because I didn't feel this way a few months ago. It's a lesson that has been unfolding for me since the birth of Abigail, and I found myself continually asking, "Can I really do this? Teach my 4 year old to read and write while my two year old wants to play and my infant needs to nurse? And when will I ever do chores in all this schooling?" My naivete is melting away and I'm feeling more and more relieved as it does.
A few things have helped. I really like A Well-Trained Mind, and every time I read it I feel encouraged, so I decided to check out their website and blog. I happened upon these articles:
School at my House, by Susan Wise Bauer. I read the one about doing school with young kids and a newborn. Not only did I realize that my expecttions were
much too high, but I realized that this is how homeschool is when you have young kids. If Trevor doesn't have perfect silence and my undivided attention to do a writing assignment, it's okay! He will still learn just fine.
In one of those articles, she happened to write something that turned on a lightbulb for me. She was talking about how the Spanish lesson (or maybe it was latin?) would be skipped that day because they got toward the end of the day and there just wasn't room for it. Duh! Spanish is not as important as reading (English), so it gets the backseat. If I do everything by priority, the important things will get finished and the rest is icing on the cake. So we're doing it that way now. Reading, Phonics, and Math are priority (as well as our family's daily devotional, of course), and science, art, geography, etc. are last (if we get to them at all).
I also like the article,
The Baby IS the Lesson, by Diane Hopkins.
So my next order of business, if I can get away from the "busyness" for a few more minutes, is to write a new "typical day" post someday soon, a more painfully truthful one. Right after I'm done nursing Abigail. And making dinner. And doing the dishes, laundry, taking the kids for a walk, solving sibling disputes, washing marker off the wall...